
There’s something nearly mystical about the aroma that fills your home when spaghetti sauce simmers on the stovetop. It’s not the smell of herbs and tomatoes; it’s the aroma of family, comfort, and scores of memories being made or fondly remembered. That glorious smell invites everyone to the kitchen, promising warmth and goodness hours before supper is served, making any house a home.
This is not a dinner experience. It’s about moments where you arrive home from a long day and you instantly know that you are home, enveloped by the comforting promise of a meal prepared with genuine love. It’s a hug in a way, a sense only a slow cooked spaghetti sauce can convey with sincerer heart.
For most of us, this famous aroma is synonymous with grandmas. They have this near legendary skill for turning plain ingredients into gourmet masterpieces, for transforming a house into a cozy and welcoming home through the use of nothing more than a pot and a wooden spoon. It’s not cooking by the recipe book; it’s an infusion of deep know how, patience, and love that imbues their spaghetti sauce with legendary and unbeatable taste.

1. Grandmas’ Character and Ability
Take grandmas’ incredible multitasking: holding a comic supplement in a “two hours’ grip,” bouncing a baby, juggling property transfers, and conjuring up food that soothes body and soul. They’re actually a “total godsend,” giving free babysitting, happy help, good advice, and unbeatable grub.

Grandma's Strawberry-Rhubarb Pie
Equipment
- 2 Pastry Blenders
- 1 Measuring Cup (2-cup)
- 1 Pie Dish 9-inch or 10-inch
- 1 Large Mixing Bowl
- 1 Rolling Pin
Ingredients
Main
- 2 cups all-purpose flour plus additional flour as needed, up to 1/4 cup
- 1/2 cup cake flour recommended: Soft As Silk
- 3 teaspoons sifted powdered sugar
- 1/2 cup butter-flavored shortening recommended: Crisco
- 1/4 cup salted butter
- Pinch salt
- 1 egg
- 2 teaspoons vinegar
- 1/4 cup ice cold water
- 2 1/2 cups chopped red rhubarb fresh
- 2 1/2 cups de-stemmed washed and cut strawberries (in larger pieces)
- 1 1/2 cups sugar 1 1/4 cups for high altitude
- 2 tablespoons minute tapioca
- 1 tablespoon all-purpose flour
- 1/2 teaspoon lemon zest
- 1/2 teaspoon lemon juice
- 1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon
- 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
- 3 tablespoons butter cubed small
- 1 egg white beaten with 1 teaspoon water
- Large granule sugar
Instructions
- Crust Preparation:
- Using 2 pastry blenders, blend the flours, sugar, shortening, butter and salt. Whisk the egg, vinegar and water in a 2-cup measure and pour over the dry ingredients incorporating all the liquid without overworking the dough. Toss the additional flour over the ball of dough and chill if possible. Divide the dough into 2 disks. Roll out 1 piece of dough to make a bottom crust. Place into a pie dish. Put dish in refrigerator to chill.
- Preheat oven to 425 degrees F.
- Filling Preparation:
- Mix the rhubarb, strawberries, sugar, tapioca, flour, zest and juice of lemon, dash of cinnamon, and vanilla. Mix well in a large bowl and pour out into chilled crust. Dot the top of the filling with the butter. Brush edges of pie crust with egg white wash. Roll out the other piece of dough and place over filling. Crimp to seal edges. Brush with egg white wash and garnish with large granule sugar. Collar with foil and bake at 425 degrees F for 15 minutes. Decrease temperature to 375 degrees F and bake for an additional 45 to 50 minutes, or until the filling starts bubbling. Higher altitude will take 450 degrees F and 400 degrees F respectively. Also, you can use a pie bird for extra decor. Let cool before serving.
Notes
Their best kept secret is generally their unique touch and the tales behind each dish. They will worry or speak nonsensically, but in the kitchen, they show their unique persona as each family’s sauce turns into a cherished custom passed down the generations and keeps history in every bite.
The mere mention of a grandmother’s recipe sends memories and homesickness for better times, warm food shared at the dinning table in a home filled with activity. It’s like eating dinner at your grandmother’s dinner table doing homework and being surrounded by the loving smells of supper being prepared something that you then find yourself doing for your own children. Time passes so quickly, but these recipes handed down are priceless treasures.

2. Why Grandma’s Cooking is Everybody’s Favourite
Why do they adore grandma’s food all over the world? It’s the comfort food that transcends all cultures and ages. Whether Abuela, Amma, Nana, Nonna, Mamaw, or Granny, the name itself conveys heat, love, and soul nourishing cuisine.

Grandma's Red Velvet Cake
Equipment
- 1 Stand Mixer with paddle attachment
- 1 Sheet Pan
- 1 Medium Saucepan
- 1 Whisk
- 1 Offset Spatula
Ingredients
Main
- 2 sticks butter room temperature
- 1 1/2 cups sugar
- 2 ounces red food coloring
- 3 tablespoons cocoa powder
- Pinch salt
- 2 eggs
- 1 cup buttermilk
- 1 teaspoon vinegar
- 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
- 2 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
- 1 1/2 teaspoons baking soda
- Butter for pan
- 5 tablespoons all-purpose flour
- 1 cup milk
- 1 cup sugar
- 2 sticks butter
- 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
- 1 1/2 cups chopped pecans
Instructions
- Preheat oven to 350 degrees F.
- In a stand mixer fitted with the paddle attachment, cream butter and sugar, until light and fluffy. Meanwhile, in a small bowl, make a paste out of the red food coloring, cocoa and salt. Remove bowl from stand mixer and mix in paste by hand to the creamed butter. In a measuring cup, stir eggs with buttermilk and add to batter. Mix in vinegar and vanilla, and then add flour and baking soda. Mix until combined but do not over mix.
- Butter a sheet pan. Lay parchment on top. Butter the parchment. Pour batter into pan and smooth the top to even the batter out, using an offset spatula. Bake cake until a toothpick comes out clean, about 30 minutes. Remove from oven and cool in pan.
- Meanwhile, make the frosting: Heat all ingredients in a medium saucepan. Whisk until sauce thickens, about 15 minutes. Let cool slightly before using.
- Invert cake onto a cutting board and slice into quarters from the longer side. To assemble cake, spread 1 of the quarters with some of the frosting to cover. Sprinkle with a quarter of the pecans. Add another layer of cake and repeat. Continue until last layer is added. Frost the top of that and sprinkle with remaining pecans.
Notes
In so many homes, the kitchen is a holy institution where grandmas take plain ingredients and make magic happen. Their food teaches us how to love, to share, and create memories that endure for a lifetime.

3. Great Grandma’s Spaghetti Sauce: A Family Tradition
This aged country Italian sauce is a kitchen heirloom that has been family tradition for decades. It began with an Irish woman just 15 years old marrying into an Italian family. With her Italian speaking husband and inlaws, she learned her culinary ways from her mother in law, a true matriarch who had brought recipes and techniques with her from Italy to America

Spaghetti Sauce
Equipment
- 1 Large stockpot or Dutch oven Essential for browning beef and simmering sauce.
- 1 Slotted Spoon For removing ground beef from the pot.
- 1 Chef's knife For dicing onions and mincing garlic.
- 1 Cutting Board
- 1 Measuring Spoons For accurate spice and sugar measurements.
Ingredients
Main
- 5 pounds ground beef I used ground round
- 3 tablespoons olive oil
- 2 large yellow onions diced
- 6 cloves garlic minced
- Two 28-ounce cans crushed tomatoes
- One 14-ounce can crushed tomatoes
- One 6-ounce can tomato paste
- 1 jar good store-bought marinara sauce you can use another jar if you like the sauce to be more saucy than meaty
- 2 tablespoons sugar
- 2 teaspoons kosher salt
- 1 teaspoon ground oregano
- 1 teaspoon ground thyme
- 1/2 teaspoon crushed red pepper optional
- 4 bay leaves
- 1/4 cup finely minced fresh parsley or 3 tablespoons parsley flakes plus more for serving
- 8 fresh basil leaves chopped
- 1 whole rind from 1 wedge Parmesan optional
- 1/2 cup grated Parmesan optional, plus more for serving
- 2 pounds spaghetti cooked al dente and tossed with olive oil, for serving
- Garlic-cheese bread for serving
Instructions
- In a large pot over medium-high heat, brown the ground beef until totally browned. Remove the meat from the pot with a slotted spoon and put into a bowl. Set aside.
- Discard any grease in the pot, but do not clean the pot. Drizzle in the olive oil. When it is heated, throw in the diced onions. Stir it around for 1 1/2 minutes, and then add the garlic. Stir and cook for an additional minute.
- Add the crushed tomatoes, tomato paste and marinara sauce. Stir to combine, and then add the sugar, salt, oregano, thyme, crushed red pepper (if using) and bay leaves. Stir, then add the cooked ground beef and stir to combine. Place the lid on the pot and allow to simmer for 1 hour, stirring occasionally. Add a little water or some low-sodium broth if it needs more liquid.
- After an hour, add the minced parsley, basil and the Parmesan rind if using (or grated Parmesan if you prefer--or both!). Stir to combine, and then put the lid back on and allow it to simmer for another 30 minutes or so. Discard the bay leaves before serving.
- Serve a big bowl of oiled noodles and the spaghetti sauce so guests can serve themselves. Top each serving with minced parsley and grated Parmesan (or Parmesan shavings) and serve with a big piece of garlic-cheese bread.
- Amen.
Notes
This apprenticeship was a day by day bonding, as great grandma stayed at home learning to cook and care for the house, absorbing generations of love and knowledge.
As 100% Irish as she was, great grandma learned Italian cooking in a few days and proudly proclaimed that she could “Cook better than any Italian woman.” Her dinners and sauce became famous all over the family.

4. Ingredients and Preparation: The Heart of the Sauce
The base for the sauce starts with
- 1 pound Italian sausage, casing removed
- 1 pound ground beef
- 2 tablespoons olive oil
Brown to perfection, this meaty base develops deep, can’t resist flavor. Break up meat during cooking and drain grease for ideal texture.

Molten Chocolate Oooozy Cake
Equipment
- 12 Foil Tins (8-ounce)
- 2 Large Mixing Bowls One for melting, one for whisking eggs
- 1 Saucepan For creating a double boiler
- 1 Whisk
- 1 Rubber Spatula For scraping batter
Ingredients
Main
- 11 ounces butter 2 3/4 sticks
- 10 ounces bittersweet chocolate chopped
- 6 eggs
- 6 egg yolks
- 3 cups confectioners' sugar
- 1 cup all-purpose flour
- Chocolate Bergamot Paint recipe follows
- Cocoa nibs as needed
- Star Anise Ice Cream recipe follows
- Citrus Reduction recipe follows
- Confectioners' sugar as needed
- Cocoa powder as needed
- Equipment: 12 8-ounce foil tins
Instructions
- Make the Cakes: Preheat the oven to 450 degrees F. Grease the tins and set aside.
- In a bowl over a saucepan of simmering water, melt the butter and chocolate together, stirring occasionally. Cool slightly.
- Meanwhile, in a separate bowl whisk together the eggs, yolks, and sugar. Whisk the egg mixture into chocolate mixture; then whisk in the flour.
- Fill the tins with the batter and bake for 4 to 5 minutes. (Alternatively, refrigerate the cakes until ready to bake, up to a day in advance. If baking cold, do so for 5 to 6 minutes.)
- Paint the bottoms of several shallow soup plates with the chocolate bergamont paint. Immediately unmold the cakes onto the plates. Place a pinch of cocoa nibs beside each cake (as a small stand for the ice cream), and place a scoop of star anise ice cream on top of each. Drizzle the citrus reduction around each plate and dust with confectioners' sugar and cocoa powder.
Notes
Then the aromatics:
- 1 small onion, chopped
- 3 cloves garlic, crushed
Time Saving Tip: Minced garlic from a jar can substitute fresh when it’s convenient. Freshly chopping onion is worth the taste.
The tomato base consists of:
- 1 (12 ounce) can tomato paste
- 2 (28 ounce) cans diced tomatoes (one petite diced, one regular diced)
- 2 (15 ounce) cans tomato sauce
- Or fresh tomatoes (20–24 whole, peeled) during season. Chop tomatoes, onion, and garlic with food processor for convenience.
Seasonings blend to perfection:
- 3 teaspoons dried basil
- 2 teaspoons dried parsley flakes
- 1 tablespoon brown sugar
- 1 teaspoon salt
- ¼ teaspoon ground black pepper
- ¼ cup red wine
Optional add ins:
Pinch of red pepper flakes to add heat
Freshly grated Parmesan cheese for serving
Brown sugar counteracts acidity; red wine adds depth of flavor, with optional spices making the sauce your own.

5. The Cooking Process and Tips
The alchemy occurs in slow, gentle simmer. Low heat for an hour, allowing the sauce to simmer 3–4 more hours intensifies flavors and perfumes your house.

Fresh Corn Salad
Equipment
- 1 Large Pot For boiling corn
- 1 Large Bowl For ice bath and tossing salad
- 1 Cutting Board For preparing corn, onion, and basil
- 1 Chef's knife For cutting corn kernels, dicing onion, julienning basil
- 1 Colander For draining corn
Ingredients
Main
- 5 ears of corn shucked
- 1/2 cup small-diced red onion 1 small onion
- 3 tablespoons cider vinegar
- 3 tablespoons good olive oil
- 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
- 1/2 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
- 1/2 cup julienned fresh basil leaves
Instructions
- In a large pot of boiling salted water, cook the corn for 3 minutes until the starchiness is just gone. Drain and immerse it in ice water to stop the cooking and to set the color. When the corn is cool, cut the kernels off the cob, cutting close to the cob.
- Toss the kernels in a large bowl with the red onions, vinegar, olive oil, salt, and pepper. Just before serving, toss in the fresh basil. Taste for seasonings and serve cold or at room temperature.
Notes
For hectic days, simmer the sauce in a slow cooker to prevent endless stirring a perfect solution for today’s busy lives.
This sauce is a warm workhorse, created to be passed along and taught, inviting children to assist and learn the skill of homemade cooking.
6. Versatility and Storage

Crab Stuffed Portobellos and Citrus-Mustard Dressed Greens
Equipment
- 1 Grill Pan or Large Nonstick Skillet
- 1 Medium Skillet
- 1 Pastry Brush
- 1 Whisk
- 2 Mixing Bowls One for greens, one for dressing
Ingredients
Main
- 1/4 cup extra-virgin olive oil eyeball it
- 4 large portobello mushroom caps wiped with damp cloth
- Grill seasoning blend recommended: Montreal Steak Seasoning by McCormick
- 2 tablespoons butter plus 1 tablespoon cut into small dice
- 1 bay leaf
- 2 ribs celery from heart of stalk
- 1 small onion chopped
- 1 small red pepper seeded and chopped
- Salt and pepper
- 2 teaspoons crab boil seasoning recommended: Old Bay or 1 teaspoon poultry seasoning plus 1 teaspoon paprika
- 2 teaspoons hot sauce eyeball it
- 6 ounces lump crabmeat available in fresh seafood section of market in 6 ounce tubs
- 3 slices white bread toasted
- 1 cup chicken stock
- A handful chopped parsley leaves
- 1 bag 8 ounces, mixed baby greens, any brand or variety
- 1 rounded tablespoon lemon curd available near jams and jellies
- 2 tablespoons white wine vinegar eyeball it
- 2 teaspoons Dijon style mustard
- 1/3 cup extra-virgin olive oil
Instructions
- Heat a grill pan or large nonstick skillet over medium-high heat. Pour extra-virgin olive oil into a small dish. Using a pastry brush, coat mushroom caps with oil. Grill 10 minutes, until tender and season with grill seasoning blend.
- Meanwhile, preheat a medium skillet over medium to medium-high heat. Add remaining extra-virgin olive oil to pan -- left from brushing mushroom caps -- to skillet and combine with 2 tablespoons butter. Melt butter into oil and add bay leaf and chopped vegetables, season with salt and pepper and crab boil seasoning or, poultry seasoning and paprika. Saute until vegetables are tender, about 5 to 7 minutes. Add hot sauce to vegetables. Run your fingers through the crab to make sure there are no pieces of shell in the meat. Break up crabmeat with fingertips and mix into veggies. Butter toasted bread with remaining 1 tablespoon of diced butter. Add toast to veggies and moisten stuffing with chicken stock. Adjust seasonings. Top cooked portobello caps with stuffing. Garnish with chopped parsley and serve along side greens.
- Pour lettuce into a bowl. In a smaller bowl, combine lemon curd with vinegar and mustard using a whisk. Whisk in oil in a slow stream and season dressing with salt and pepper, to your taste.
Notes
Great Grandma’s sauce is versatile:
- Excellent on pasta, used in lasagna, and various Italian dishes
- Great as a dipper sauce for bread, bringing back memories of childhood
- Perfect as a do it yourself pizza sauce substitute
It can be jarred or canned and kept for later, maintaining that homey taste for months.

7. Grandma Barb’s Homemade Spaghetti Sauce: Quick & Packed Full of Flavor
There is a story to this sauce too, discovered in handwritten notes. The family favourite, “so quick, easy, full of flavor,” and simple enough for weeknights.

Vegan Fish Sauce
Equipment
- 1 Blender or Spice Grinder For making wakame powder.
- 1 Mixing Bowl For combining liquid ingredients.
- 1 Whisk For thorough mixing and dissolving ingredients.
- 1 Measuring Cups and Spoons For accurate ingredient measurements.
- 1 Airtight Storage Container For refrigerating the finished sauce.
Ingredients
Main
- For the fish sauce:
- 3/4 cup water
- 2 tablespoons organic sugar
- 2 tablespoons soy sauce or Bragg’s Liquid Aminos
- 1 tablespoon distilled vinegar
- 2 tablespoons liquid from a jar of fermented tofu
- 1 teaspoon wakame powder recipe below
- 1 teaspoon sea salt
- For the wakame powder:
- 1 cup dried wakame
Instructions
- Prepare wakame powder: Place dried wakame into a blender or spice grinder and process until a very fine powder is achieved.
- In a mixing bowl, combine water, organic sugar, soy sauce (or Bragg’s Liquid Aminos), and distilled vinegar.
- Add the liquid from a jar of fermented tofu to the mixture.
- Stir well with a whisk to help dissolve the sugar and integrate the liquids.
- Add the prepared wakame powder and sea salt to the bowl.
- Whisk thoroughly until all ingredients are fully combined and the salt is completely dissolved, ensuring no lumps remain.
- Taste the sauce and adjust the seasoning if necessary, adding more sugar or salt to achieve the desired balance.
- Transfer the finished vegan fish sauce into a clean, airtight storage container or bottle.
- Refrigerate the sauce for at least 30 minutes to allow the flavors to meld and develop.
- Store the vegan fish sauce in the refrigerator for up to several weeks and use as needed in recipes.
Notes
Chunky with sautéed onions, garlic, herbs, and a secret spice blend:
- Fennel seed
- Celery salt
- Paprika
- Black pepper & salt
- Red pepper flakes
- Granulated sugar
- Dried basil, parsley, oregano
- Garlic and onion powder
Instructions:
- Heat olive oil, sauté onions until they become soft
- Add garlic until it’s fragrant
- Brown ground beef with grass, finely chop, season, drain fat
- Add diced tomatoes and tomato sauce
- Stir in dry spices (not the fresh herbs) and a bay leaf
- Simmer 20–30 minutes, add water or broth to thin out sauce
- Stir in fresh basil and parsley, simmer 5–10 minutes

Canned Salad
Equipment
- 1 Large Mixing Bowl For combining all ingredients efficiently.
- 1 Cutting Board Essential for safe and clean ingredient preparation.
- 1 Chef's knife For precise cutting of celery, tomatoes, and hearts of palm.
- 1 Small Skillet or Pan For toasting pine nuts to enhance their flavor.
- 1 Citrus Juicer or Reamer To efficiently extract fresh lemon juice.
Ingredients
Main
- One 14- to 15-ounce can low-sodium white beans or black-eyed peas rinsed and drained
- One 14-ounce jar artichoke hearts drained, rinsed and quartered
- One 14-ounce can hearts of palm drained and cut into about 1/2-inch slices
- 4 ounces crumbled feta
- 3 to 4 celery stalks peeled and cut into about 1/2-inch pieces, plus some coarsely chopped celery leaves
- 1 cup grape tomatoes cut in half
- 3 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
- 1 tablespoon finely grated lemon zest plus 1 or 2 lemons halved
- Kosher salt
- 1/4 cup pine nuts toasted
Instructions
- Combine the beans, artichoke hearts, hearts of palm, feta cheese, celery and leaves, tomatoes, oil and lemon zest in a large serving bowl. Squeeze on lots of lemon juice to make the salad taste really bright, then sprinkle on about 1/2 teaspoon salt. Toss really well and season with more salt to taste. Sprinkle on the pine nuts.
Notes
Taste and season, with low salt if serving over Parmesan. The sauce is stronger the second day. Add ins can be pepperoni, red wine, black olives, sausage, fresh herbs, bell peppers, or shredded carrots for sweetness.
Serve over lightly tossed spaghetti in garlic olive oil and fresh parsley, with salad and garlic bread. The sauce is good to store, perfect for lasagna, ziti, or “manwiches.”

8. Comparing the Two Sauces
Great Grandma’s sauce uses Italian sausage and ground beef, longer simmer time, tomato paste, and red wine. Grandma Barb’s uses ground beef only, shorter simmer time, no tomato paste, but more complex spice blend.
Each starts with browned meat and vegetables, both rely on slow cooking to obtain flavor. They are tradition, love, and family comfort food.

9. Mastering the Art of Spaghetti Sauce
Patient cooking: heat slowly to develop rich flavors. For thicker sauce, cook longer (5–20 extra minutes), stirring constantly. If too thick, add ½ cup water.
Customize recipes by blending spice mixes, replacing meats, including vegetables, or changing cooking times. These recipes are frameworks encouraging your own innovation, bringing vitality to a living culinary heritage.

10. Sharing the Legacy
These sauces aren’t meals they’re history and love served on a plate. Learning to cook these recipes creates new history and shared experience.
Every bite a taste of the past and a hug of the hands that came before us, their spirit transferred in each spoonful.
It’s your turn now: grab your wooden spoon, fill your kitchen with those heavenly aromas, and start your own culinary heritage.