
Corporate leaders often praise employees as “valued” and “appreciated,” but these kind words can feel hollow without fair pay and good working conditions, leading to significant problems for companies in today’s competitive talent market.
Two recent stories vividly illustrate how employees who felt undervalued took action, one through ‘malicious compliance’ and the other by seeking better opportunities, highlighting why genuine appreciation and competitive pay are vital business strategies, not just optional perks.
Let’s delve into the world of overtime policies for a moment. Overtime work is a common feature of many jobs, serving as a way for companies to meet fluctuating workloads, hit tight deadlines, and boost productivity without the immediate need for hiring additional staff. For employees, it can offer the possibility of higher earnings, especially when extra hours are compensated fairly. The principle, whether mandated by law or contract, should always revolve around fairness and compliance.
However, not all overtime rules are created equal, and the experience can vary wildly depending on location and company policy. In the USA, the Fair Labor Standards Act dictates that nonexempt employees receive 1.5 times their regular hourly rate for overtime hours. The Philippines offers an additional 25% for overtime on regular days and 30% on rest days or holidays, a system designed to fairly reward hard work.

While some countries like the UK and Australia have specific overtime pay rates, these can vary greatly and aren’t always guaranteed without explicit contract terms, raising the question: what happens when policies or their interpretations feel inherently unfair or insulting, even if technically compliant?
Consider the case of a large corporation with a 300-plus person department, operating with a divide between salaried staff and hourly contractors. The department was overseen by leaders described as “two vindictive women who were wholly responsible for the toxic environment.” Despite the reality, these leaders liked to talk about running the best company and constantly “blowing smoke about how much we were valued.
One day, leadership decided to demonstrate this “appreciation.” Not with a raise, of course, but with an “Appreciation Potluck.” The company would provide only soft drinks, citing a policy against alcohol on company property, except, it seems, when they decided otherwise. The real kicker was the expectation that employees would provide all the food, with the implicit instruction “Nothing store-bought – share some love with us!” While not put in writing, it was understood that failing to cook something would be “noted.”
This wasn’t merely an inconvenience; it was perceived as deeply tone-deaf and insulting. It required employees to spend their own money and, crucially, their own time preparing food, all to “prop up the illusion that the company cares.” This was particularly galling for the half of the staff who were hourly contractors and didn’t even receive health insurance through the company. The request for this unpaid contribution came straight from the top, and one employee decided it was time for the leadership to be “thoroughly, inescapably embarrassed.”

The opportunity arose during a call with their boss two days before the event. The employee dropped a strategic question: why had they declined the Outlook invite? The employee explained they needed to leave three hours early the next day to cook for the potluck, assuming overtime wouldn’t be authorized. This was necessary to keep their hours at 40 for the week, as the recipe took about an hour to cook, plus the two-hour event after business hours.
The boss’s initial confusion and disbelief at the request for overtime pay for an ‘appreciation’ meal underscored the disconnect, as the employee pointed out the unfairness of expecting 150 contractors to donate their time, leading to the boss’s sudden realization of how the situation appeared to others.
While the employee felt some regret for involving their direct boss, who “had enough on her plate,” they knew she would escalate the issue to those “who get paid to know better.” The impact was immediate. The employee was told their call sent people into a panic at the “mothership,” consuming “a day and a half of a lot of people’s time.” Mission accomplished, indeed.
The leadership, “sufficiently spooked,” revised their plans. The potluck was moved to lunchtime, occurring during paid time for the contractors. Furthermore, they bought pizzas, but only for the employee’s specific satellite office. Interestingly, they were instructed not to be seen eating the pizza during the required Skype-in session with other offices, presumably because those offices weren’t receiving the same benefit. This saga underscores how a simple, logical application of policy by an employee can expose critical blind spots and force a company to confront the reality of its actions versus its stated values.

Shifting focus from awkward appreciation events to the core issue of compensation, another account details an employee’s departure from a large health insurance company after feeling undervalued in his customer service role, a common sentiment leading to resignations.
During the pandemic, career advancement became challenging due to hiring freezes, making internal job changes highly competitive and difficult to even secure an interview for, despite the employee’s gratitude for job security amidst what he described as “abysmal” pay.
Despite feeling “mentally checked out,” the employee received an exceptional 4 out of 4 performance review score in 2021, only to be met with a disheartening 1% raise, an increase so small it would “barely make a difference” to his meager paycheck.

When he inquired about the small raise after such a strong review, his boss attributed it to the “company budget” and, adding insult to injury, suggested that “if he didn’t like it, he could quit and find something else.” This dismissive response, far from discouraging him, “really kicked me into overdrive” in his job search. Within two weeks, he was interviewing for multiple roles at a sister company, and just a month later, he received “an offer I couldn’t refuse.”
The new position came with a substantial 32% increase in salary, exceeding what he had hoped for from his previous employer. His resignation caught his boss off guard. His departure was particularly inconvenient for the company because he was “the most experienced person on the team,” frequently providing “questions/advice” to colleagues. He was also an “expert” on “special projects” that now required finding a replacement on short notice. The cost of replacing a knowledgeable, high-performing employee, dealing with project disruption, and training a successor often far outweighs the cost of a more competitive raise.
These individual narratives resonate with broader workforce trends. Data acquired by the Pew Research Center highlights the primary reasons Americans quit their jobs in 2021. Unsurprisingly, compensation is a major factor. Sixty-three percent of workers who quit cited low pay as a reason. Tied with low pay, also at 63%, was a lack of opportunities for advancement.

Rounding out the top reasons for departure, 57% of those who quit reported feeling disrespected at work. These statistics paint a clear picture: employees are leaving when they feel undervalued, underpaid, and see no path for growth. The stories of the appreciation potluck and the 1% raise fit perfectly within this framework – feeling disrespected through trivial or demanding “appreciation” and quitting due to inadequate pay and a boss who suggested leaving if unhappy.
In today’s economy, where living wages are increasingly scarce and inflation is a constant worry, employees are less tolerant of jobs that don’t truly serve their needs, as they are well aware of their market worth and the significance of their contributions.
Companies that ignore this reality and continue to offer superficial gestures while underpaying or dismissing employee concerns risk losing valuable talent, disrupting operations, and incurring significant recruitment and training costs; therefore, investing in employees through fair compensation and policies is essential for retention and profitability.
The gap between a workforce that feels genuinely valued and one that feels exploited can be seen not only in morale but also in turnover rates, lost productivity, and overall financial performance, emphasizing that true appreciation involves investing in people through fair pay, growth opportunities, and respectful policies that foster loyalty and business success.
